I'm Doing Me

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According to the Urban dictionary, it defines the term I'm doing me as the act of taking care of yourself first, making yourself happy not trying to please others or being independent doing what you want to do, not allowing people to influence your decision.

You might have been the victim of always trying to please others first and in the process pleasing yourself last. You need to please yourself first, do what makes you happy, instead of doing what others want you to do. In school, you did the courses your parent told you to do as well as the career path they choose for you. Even though you did not want to do it, but I  am telling you now live life on your terms, do what makes you happy because at the end of the day you are the one who will have to live with the choices you made not them.

Stop letting people dictate your life you are in control not them don't let others choose your spouse that is your duty they can guide you, but in the end, the decision should be yours and yours only.

Any decisions you make in life make sure it's on your terms stop living for people. Remember you can't please people they will always have a problem so please yourself, do what makes you happy.

    If you want to be fulfilled, do what makes you happy.





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