Choosing Better Over Bitter: A Transformative Perspective

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Life often presents us with countless reasons to become bitter, but instead of succumbing to negativity, choose to become better.


When others mistreat you, devalue your worth, lie about you without remorse, or abandon you after you have shown them kindness, resist the urge to become bitter. Instead, focus on becoming better. If a relationship ends before it truly begins, choose to be better, not bitter.

When you fail an exam, don't get the job you are more than qualified for due to politics, or are passed over for a promotion, don't let bitterness take hold. Instead, use these setbacks as opportunities to improve and grow.

Life's challenges should not rob you of your joy, love, and gentleness. Remember, you have one life to live, so make the most of it. Don't let the world steal your happiness.

I am still learning to play a different card than the one life deals me. When life gives me a bitter card, I counteract it with a better one. While I haven't yet mastered this art, I am making tremendous progress, and if I can do it, so can you. As a renowned motivational speaker once affirmed, "It's not over until I win." Let this be your mantra moving forward.

Life can be both amazing and painful. Your reaction to what it throws at you determines whether you live a bitter or better life. So, choose today: will you become bitter or better? The choice is yours and only yours.

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  1. KimberleyJanuary 9, 2019 at 9:01 PM

    Interesting

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  2. Carlene ShawJanuary 26, 2019 at 12:47 AM

    Indeed just don't let life circumstances allow you to get bitter just get better. Thanks for sharing.

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