Forgiveness or Hatred

Have you ever experience  falling in love with your best friend and in the end  it didn’t  work out the way you had hope? Can you still remain friends or foes?

Many have walked  that road  and they  can agree with me and say its not an easy road to travel . When you  fall in  love with your  best friend and  it didn't end the way you had  anticipate, at first  you will feel  betrayed , you will be  lost for awhile, your heart  will be  torn into million pieces and you  feel like you can't   put it  back together. Everytime you see him/her  the hurt just keep recurring . 

My advice is try to avoid  seeing him/ her  both visually and virtually for a while .During this  time you should do  alot of  self assessment which is  a requirement if you want to move forward .You should  not let the hurt  you encounter destroyed or define you. Instead use it to create  a updated version of yourself, this will make you  stronger. The decision to remain friends lies with you and it is a decision you alone can decide ,however if this friendship is  going to cause you heartache and additional stress then you need to part company.

My journey in life so far  have taught me that life is a risk jusk like love. So do not give up on love. My advice to you if  your relationship last in love embrace and do everything within your power to make  it last, because  alot  of persons out there searching for what you have. If it  hurt instead dont let it destroyed or define you but use it to create a updated version of self.